Part of the battle in recovery from diet addiction is not giving into the voices from ourselves–and the enemy–that we’re ugly, huge, hideous. That’s a spiritual battle. One practical thing that can help is to learn to dress for our body type while God is freeing us from the bondage to diet addiction. Anyway, that’s what I’ve found. These are practical tips that may help you as well. For more tips, check out What to Wear for Curvy Girls, Part 1.
I can’t say it enough. No hugging allowed! No tucking! No tight jeans with T-shirts. No roll-skimming fabrics that reveal every bulge. Instead, create a sense of flow. Honestly, I think this is applying the Scripture about dressing modestly.
I’ve said that “ruffles cover a multitude of sin.” But when I searched for photos with ruffles, I discovered these are called “tiers.” I have this amazing dress that I wore to my niece’s wedding (and other dressy events). It’s a lot like the photo in the upper lefthand corner. Even one of the groomsmen said to me, “Ma’am, that’s a beautiful dress!” Thank you, tiers!
This is a given for me because I’m self-conscious about my arms. If you have gorgeous arms, show them off! I love these photos, though, because they show all kinds of jackets we can wear–long and short, soft and heavy, sweaters and coats. It’s actually one more layer we can add to our look.
Girl, you are beautiful! And you are on a journey to take back your life from the enemy who’s ravaged you with condemnation. Enjoy dressing up. Add cool boots, a comfortable belt, gorgeous jewelry. Don’t be boring; take a look at all the looks above. I’m loving them! And, by the way, see that skirt in the lower righthand corner? Normally I’m not a fan of waist-hugging styles, but all that tulle does a great job of creating flare so it works!
I love these looks! I like to surprise with things I wear–like the photo in the upper lefthand corner. There’s something about jagged edges at the bottom that intrigues me. But that’s my style! And thankfully, there are so many beautiful styles for curvy women that you can define your style. And that brings me to the last point…
These are four looks that I’d like to create out of my wardrobe–of course, with a jacket for these arms! Don’t imitate someone. You’re uniquely created by an amazing God. Let YOUR personality shine through (instead of your rolls!).
If you’d like to see more photos of what I think works and doesn’t, check out my Pinterest boards: Style Ideas and What Not to Wear.
Ok, so we’ve looked at What Not to Wear, part 1 and part…
I went to church a few weeks ago, wearing an outfit that made me feel…
Carol Barrow | 14th May 17
Great stuff, Chris! I’m in Estes Park and was just in a store called The White Orchid that has ALL the styles you hilite here. I even saw “tiers”. ?
Christine Yount Jones | 15th May 17
That’s awesome, Carol! I’d love to check out that store! Happy Mother’s Day to you!